A Recap of the 2022 Leadership Summit

Phi Kappa Theta Fraternity held its 2022 Leadership Summit in San Antonio, Texas, from July 15th - 17th.

The weekend consisted of leadership meetings, breakout sessions, an exemplification of our ritual, and much more at the Hilton Palacio del Rio!

A special reception was hosted by the PKT Alamo Alumni Association at the Tower of Americas in downtown San Antonio to honor Manny González (Texas A&I University, ’82), who was honored as the 2022 Man of Achievement at our Saturday evening banquet.

“My mind and my heart are still trying to process what occurred that weekend. I have been blessed with my wonderful Lucinda, my loving daughters, friends, and my career, but I honestly underestimated what fraternal brotherhood has meant to my life. It is my core, it is my compass, and it is who I am. To be recognized as “Man of Achievement” by these wonderful men I call my brothers was exceptionally meaningful and truly validated the pillars of our brotherhood, which we proudly call Phi Kappa Theta.”
— 2022 Man of Achievement, Manny González (Texas A&I University, '82)

Current and former National Fraternity presidents proudly stand next to Brother González (center).

In addition to honoring Brother González, attendees recognized the efforts of our collegiate chapters with awards for the 2021 - 2022 academic year during a luncheon.

We interviewed Pritish Mishra (Case Western Reserve University, ‘23) and Alexander Laitinen (Bridgewater State University, ‘23) to highlight the attendee experience from a collegiate perspective.

What was your overall impression of the Leadership Summit? 

Pritish Mishra:
Since this was my first time going, I did not have any set expectations. I was pleasantly surprised. I think of my chapter as a group of close and honest brothers. All the events we had during the summit reflected that aspect of our brotherhood.  

Regarding the event, I liked the discussions on why we exist as an organization. I think it is essential to have those conversations. We also had an honest and open-minded conversation about what diversity means to us as a national organization, fraternity, and brotherhood. That conversation was also highly appropriate because it revealed the brother’s feelings and what they thought was important. 

It was nice meeting all the new people from all different walks of life. 

The biggest and the best experience I had, was conversing with other brothers and their families. I did not expect everyone to be so forthcoming, honest, and friendly. When you talk at a chapter level, you know everything. But at a national level, it is different. Before, I was intimidated by the board and national staff. But when attending the summit, I talked to the current and past presidents and realized they are brothers first, and we are all on the same level. It humanizes them a lot, and I think that is very important.

Alexander Laitinen:
Being from a Massachusetts chapter, I had never ventured out to San Antonio. I didn’t know what to expect regarding how those at nationals would receive me. Once I got there, I realized that even though my other brothers were older than me, we still had mutual respect for everyone, and we all enjoyed getting to know one another. 

What was your biggest takeaway? 

Pritish Mishra:
I would split this into three parts. First, It is essential to remember where we come from and never forget our roots. The second is always to be open-minded when working in a team. You have the potential to learn something new from everyone. The third piece is to be kind to everyone. You don’t know where they come from regarding why they do what they do. When you are kind, sometimes the best of someone comes out, which you will always cherish. 

Alexander Laitinen:  
It can feel like those at nationals are distant, and we don’t always know if our beliefs are the same as theirs. After attending the Summit, I could see how much those at nationals do care. Seeing how they spoke and carried themselves showed that we are on the same page, and at the end of the day, we are all Phi Kaps. Everyone up top cares the same as everyone below. 

What advice would you give to someone if you knew that they were contemplating going to a national event next year? 

Pritish Mishra:
My honest advice is to go for it. I was the only one from my chapter attending.

Surprisingly, I found out that one of the former [National Fraternity] presidents [Robert Stalder from Case Western Reserve University, ‘94] was from my chapter, and I would not have found that out if I had not gone. I met so many new people and made so many new friends. I still am in regular contact with many of the people I met. We only interacted in the span of two days. If I can form that bond with brothers so different from me in two days, it shows the benefit of attending. Just do it! 

It was something I will cherish for the rest of my life, and I will plan to attend the next national event. I think for my chapter, this will be highly beneficial, and it will help us grow and have more conversations about who we are and help us continue growing a stronger bond. I will always be grateful for having this opportunity, and I will encourage future leaders to come to this in the future.

Alexander Laitinen: 
Find why you love Phi kappa Theta and take that with you. 

Figure out what you want from Phi Kappa Theta and choose to attend the Summit [or any other upcoming national event] for that reason. It will help you get the most out of your Fraternity experience. 

“I always enjoy attending Phi Kappa Theta’s annual summer meeting - this Leadership Summit included - as it’s one of the few times a year we’re able to gather and experience what it means to be part of a nationally shared Phi Kap brotherhood. Our discussions over the weekend, both business and society alike, were energized, thoughtful, and inclusive. The  Summit was a fantastic reminder of how blessed our Fraternity is to have many alumni volunteers who consistently dedicate themselves to enriching the next generation of brothers in the Phi, the Kappa, and the Theta. That is why it was so fitting that the culmination of the weekend was honoring brother Manny González, one of the most humble, kind, and generous members of our order, with the Fraternity’s highest honor: the Man of Achievement award!” 
— National Fraternity President, Matthew Runkle (Worcester Polytechnic Institute, '11)

If you attended this year’s Leadership Summit, you know how beneficial it is to connect with brothers from around the country and contribute to discussions that are guiding the Fraternity into the future.

The connection between alumni and collegiate members is always important, and we encourage you to continue making those connections whenever possible.

For those who couldn’t make it to the Summit – we hope to see you at our Biennial Convention in 2023!

Founder’s Cup and Chapter Awards Presented at the 2022 Leadership Summit

Indiana Alpha Gamma members after receiving the Founder's Cup. Pictured from left to right: Executive Vice President Robert Riggs, CAE, Owen Tong (Trine University, ’25), Nathan Matthews, Great Lakes UGAC member & current chapter president (Trine University, ’23), Hunter Bennett, chapter treasurer (Trine University ‘24), and National Fraternity President, Matthew Runkle.

FOUNDERS' CUP

  • Indiana Alpha Gamma (Trine University)

Fraternal Development Excellence

  • Indiana Alpha Gamma (Trine University)

  • Massachusetts Zeta (Bridgewater State University)

  • Washington Alpha Delta (Washington State University)

  • Georgia Gamma Tau (Georgia Tech)

  • Massachusetts Lambda (Worcester Polytechnic Institute)

Intellectual Development Awards

  • Indiana Alpha Gamma (Trine University)

  • Massachusetts Zeta (Bridgewater State University)

  • Washington Alpha Delta (Washington State University)

Leadership Development Awards

  • Indiana Alpha Gamma (Trine University)

  • Massachusetts Zeta (Bridgewater State University)

  • Missouri Mu (Missouri University of Science and Technology)

Societal Development Awards

  • Indiana Alpha Gamma (Trine University)

  • Massachusetts Zeta (Bridgewater State University)

  • Washington Alpha Delta (Washington State University)

  • Missouri Kappa Upsilon (University of Missouri)

  • Arizona Alpha Zeta (Arizona State University)

Spiritual Development Awards

  • Indiana Alpha Gamma (Trine University)

  • Nebraska Pi (University of Nebraska-Lincoln)

  • Massachusetts Zeta (Bridgewater State University)

Bronze Awards

  • Massachusetts Lambda (Worcester Polytechnic Institute)

  • Nebraska Pi (University of Nebraska-Lincoln)

  • Arizona Alpha Zeta (Arizona State University)

Silver Awards

  • Missouri Mu (Missouri University of Science and Technology)

  • Missouri Kappa Upsilon (University of Missouri)

  • GA Gamma Tau (Georgia Tech)

Gold Awards

  • Washington Alpha Delta (Washington State University)

  • Massachusetts Zeta (Bridgewater State University)

  • Indiana Alpha Gamma (Trine University)

Chapter Reunions Inspired by James McClune (Loyola Marymount University, ‘73)

Phi Kappa Theta brothers are committed to the idea that we have a direct impact on the communities around us. As members, we dedicate ourselves to five areas of development: fraternal, leadership, intellectual, societal, and spiritual. These elements intertwine and overlap to create a unique Fraternity experience in Phi Kappa Theta. 

This photo was taken after initiation Mass and breakfast 1973 

We believe that brotherhood exceeds the walls of the Fraternity on campus. It brings us joy when we hear from members who have grown together over time and who continue to stay in touch. James McClune, (Loyola Marymount University, ‘73), is a great example of a brother who has shown commitment to the Fraternity and his brothers.  

What was your role within the Alpha Nu Chapter?  

James: Like most of us, my roles within the Chapter changed every year, depending on my schoolwork, my outside jobs, my demands as an interscholastic athlete, and the needs of the Fraternity. My formal positions were Trustee and “Initiation Director” (known today as New Member Educator).

Can you tell me more about your experience in that chapter? 

James: My college experience was very much enhanced by the relationships I made in the Fraternity. 

At the time, the Vietnam War was going strong and the possibility of being drafted was real, my classes were difficult, and I had several jobs trying to pay my tuition. Joining a Catholic fraternity with so many good men with whom I shared so much was a very positive decision and I still benefit from that decision today. 

We had a talented group of Brothers: The Scholars, the Existentialists, the beachboys (for a while our Fraternity house was on the shore of the Pacific Ocean just south of Venice), the Air Force ROTC, the Jocks (we won quite a few intramural championships), the Artists. Our Fraternity presented us with the opportunity to “travel” through all these groups from time to time. My life was enriched by getting to know these future lawyers, dentists, soldiers, educators, artists, etc. 

Can you tell me more about your group of brothers that currently meet every year? 

James: The Brothers that now meet every year are those same young men but now they are mostly retired with grandchildren but remain the same “knuckleheads” from 1972.  For those of us still living in Southern California, we try to get together several times throughout the year. These meets generally have eight to ten Brothers present. 

Currently, we have 83 Brothers in our email database. That list includes brothers that graduated in the ’60s through the ’90s but mostly in the 1970s. Once LMU releases its basketball schedule, usually in September, I put out an email to all 83 of the brothers with the possible event. While we all would prefer to watch our gallant little Lions take on Gonzaga, we try to settle on a date that works for the greatest number. This last year the opponent was Portland University and we won! 

It has now become a three-day production. Most Brothers get together on Friday morning or afternoon to play golf, go to the beach, and hang out. We then meet for dinner Friday night. Personally, that is my favorite part of the weekend. When we started these “reunions,” our small group would meet at a nice restaurant Friday, but the number has grown to over thirty, so we take over various pizza parlors. 

The Saturday schedule is determined by the time of the LMU basketball game. We meet for breakfast and lunch at a couple of “beach dives” in Playa del Rey and then go to the game where we sit in a block and try not to be a major embarrassment to our alma mater. If the game started early, we would go to a brother’s house or a bar for a post-game party. 

Sunday morning, we meet for Mass at the local parish. After Mass, Brothers start leaving for home but some meet one more time for breakfast. 

What do you value most about the connection with these brothers? 

James: The thing I value most about the connection is that for a brief period when we were so young and inexperienced, we made life-long relationships.  

What advice do you have for a young man currently in a college chapter? 

James: If you are in college and in Phi Kappa Theta now, realize that many of the qualities of being in a fraternity are qualities valuable in life:  work hard, stay in physical shape, maintain a healthy work-life balance, be a good friend to as many as possible and keep God in your life. 

James creates a unique Fraternity experience for brothers every year. His compassion and love for his brothers show through his efforts to keep the group connected.

Are you planning a reunion for your chapter? We would love to hear about it!

A Recap of this Year’s Discovery XP

Having a community of brothers supporting one another through each stage of life is extremely important. By attending Discovery XP, our alumni learned about becoming the best version of themselves alongside their brothers and Dr. Michael Brown. By taking steps to unlock their true potential with a high-impact curriculum and personal coaching designed to inspire and empower our brothers, they can take charge of their lives and find support in one another.  

“It is compelling to me to think about my role as a man, as a father, as a husband, as a mentor, it’s a really powerful image to me.” –Dr. Michael Brown 

Coming into a space with like-minded individuals is where many find their truth and passions flourish. Our brothers Raymond Wu (San Diego State University, ‘11), Leo Carrillo (San Diego State University, ‘16) and Noah Rosemblatt (Ohio University, ‘16) led by example as they took a brave step into the community of these brothers and continue to show up every chance they get. Below is a Q&A session with the three of them. We hope you can be inspired by this article and maybe even find yourself at Discovery XP next year!

What made you decide you wanted to attend Discovery XP this year? 

Ray: I have been fortunate enough to have attended different workshops by Dr. Michael Brown leading to my first ever Discovery XP in 2019. I was able to connect with other brothers and take time to grow myself. With having an amazing experience the last time, and it being in Tahoe, I decided to go. I am thankful that I went. 

Leo: Going 2-3 years ago to the last one, I left with a new perspective that had a meaningful impact in my life. I attended this year because I knew that I could get more from it given that I was in a different stage in my life and I was excited to learn alongside new brothers. 

Noah: I was looking to reconnect with members of my fraternity and spend time reflecting on my own decisions 

What surprised you during this retreat? 

Ray: I was surprised by the resort and love how less structured the experience was compared to previous years.  

Leo: The exact pin pointed content we covered. I didn’t expect that we would be focused on a few key points rather than all the dimensions of life. I was very happy that we were able to get deep into specific subjects and reflect as a group. 

Noah: How warm and welcoming everyone was. I did not know anyone else in the room when I first walked in, but quickly became familiar and treated like a friend. 

Did you make any valuable connections during the retreat? 

Ray: It is always fun connecting with alumnus who I would have never met if I had never gone to something like this. It provided us with a safe environment to be authentic and vulnerable.  

Leo: Most of the guys that attended I had never met before and now will be lifelong brothers and friends. 

Noah: Yes, I believe I did. 

What was your biggest take-away? 

Ray: We can always keep improving on the dimensions we choose to focus on regardless of how many times you attend these experiences. 

Leo: Perspective drives everything. If you have your grand mission statement, all actions should follow this. 

Noah: Quite honestly, there were many takeaways, but I believe the biggest one related to the second question - I found a group of friends out of complete strangers within a three day period. 

What advice would you have for someone debating on whether to attend
Discovery XP
 next year? 

Ray: Take time to invest in yourself. You will find hundreds of reasons why you shouldn’t go, but just go. It can be impactful and if it doesn’t, you built new connections with other brothers and got a relaxing and fun vacation out of it.  

Leo: Go. This isn’t a motivational, rah rah event. This is a retreat to connect with like- minded men who want to become the best versions of themselves. Getting with this group, I guarantee you will be vulnerable, learn a ton, and be excited to take action on your learnings. 

Noah: Just try it; you may be toying, thinking it is silly, not worthwhile to go, expensive, etc. But look at it as an investment in yourself, a retreat, and an opportunity to genuinely meet new people, and you'll be surprised when you commit how you ever debated the decision in the first place. 

If you want a chance to dive into the offerings of Discovery XP, join us for our Leadership Summit on July 15-17 in San Antonio, Texas. We are excited to have Dr. Michael Brown facilitating Discovery XP curriculum at this event. This would be a great opportunity to see what the curriculum is all about. Register today!